Would you care? A little survey if you will.?

Would you be ok and really ok and fine about it (not including accepting it but screaming inside and not because of money spent) but truly ok emotionally........?



1~ If they went to an adult movie theatre say a couple times a year?

If they went on a regular basis? Maybe a couple times a month or more?

In case you dont know, its a movie theatre with porn. There are also booths where you can view porn and masturbate in a more private setting.



2~ Went to swinger clubs male or female dancers a few times a year?

Regularly, every month?



3~ Joined an adult dating site such as Adult Friend finder or Ashley Madison?

What if you looked through their acct and saw no sign of chatting or plans to meet?



4~ Cyber sexed with a random paid cyber sex professional?

Phone sex with paid phone sex operator?

These two things with a non professional, random person known from online?



5~ Ate a restaurant/bar where the servers were nude, in skimpy lingerie or outfits? Or was holding wet t shirt contest, bikini contests,etc?



6~ Had lunch with a smoking hot co worker or NEW friend?



7~ Went to a nude beach without you?



8~ Watched porn with random people?

Specifically looked up nude or almost nude pics of celebrities to use as "material?



Thanks fr your time :-)Would you care? A little survey if you will.?
1 - without me? that would bother me if she did

2 - swinger clubs (without me) yes, strip clubs no

3 - without letting me know about it yes, if I knew and had her login then no

4 - outside of the money the professional would be ok, random person from online who is out of state/non-driving distance is ok

5 - no problem there

6 - during working hours lunch no problem, saturday/sunday would be a problem

7 - Hmm this is rougher, I guess depends on who she did go with, so maybe a problem, maybe not.

8 - do you mean "watched porn in a room with other random people in the room with her" or do you mean browsed pornhub/redtube/etc ? Big difference there. and nude pics of celebrities make great material, I tend to search for porn that matches real life women I either have been with, or fantasize about.
1.Not care.



2.Not care.



3.Care a little, and ask about it.



4.Not much care.



5.Cool. We'd go there as a couple.



6.Would not care..we do this all the time right now.



7.Would not care. She went to the nude beach to see all the ugly old fat guys...well hope she had fun(We don't have the cool Europe beaches here in Ohio)



8.Not care.Would you care? A little survey if you will.?
If your husband is doing ALL of these things then he does not "rock"- he does not appreciate you. Strip clubs with close guy friends for bachelor parties is one thing, BUT Ashley Madison is a sex site for people unhappy with the sex in their marriage, by the way. If he is frequenting all these places then he is over-sexed and who knows whats going on in his mind
1~

A couple times a year

2~

Okay for me, wife, no so much

3~

Okay for me, wife, NO

4~

No Way I pay for that, or her either.

5~

That's called Hooters isn't it?

6~

Lunch is cool, so's coffee. Once again, wife, no so much.

7~

Nobody wants to see that.....either of us.

8~

Celebrity porn is where we get to know Paris hilton isn't it?
1. No, I wouldn't be ok with that on any level.

2. no

3. no

4. no

5. sure. That doesn't phase me

6. sure. Lots of his friends are women. It would depend on the circumstances of the NEW friendship.

7. I'd go to laugh at his discomfort

8. no
1. Once in a great while - ok but not frequently (monthly, weekly, etc.)

2. Strip clubs - once in a while ok

3. Absolutely not

4. No

5. Sure - once in a while ok

6. Sure

7. Sure

8. No
I would not be okay with any of these. I know that there will probably be some on here that will say they would be okay with some of these things, and if they are - they do not love the person they are with.
1. No

2. No

3. No

4. No

5. Hooters or this local bar we have, but for the most part, no.

6. As long as I could get to know her, too.

7. No

8. Maybe
1. No.

2. No

3. No

4. No

5. Only Hooters

6. Yes.

7. Sure. The only people there are 60+ years old.

8. No.
I'm sorry I don't find it acceptable. When you start fishing soon you catch fish. Why would you want to do any of these things if you are in a healthy relationship?
1. Yes

2. Yes

3. HELL NO

4. HELL NO

5. yes

6. HELL NO

7. yes

8. yes
yes to all if I can do the same and hear no complains - actually we can do it together ...
I would not be ok with any of it.
Well I'd just say what is good for the gander is good for goose...you go have some fun too.



BC
1~ Kinda odd thing but no I wouldn't b cool w/it.



2~ No--I'd wonder what I'm doing wrong or what we're lacking in our relationship



3~ No-Shows yet again signs of trouble



4~ No--i'd prefer it with me



5~No--bc bs its *for the food*...the food is cr@p, ur there to be a perv



6~ Yes I'm ok with that...its lunch, its a co-worker and I trust him on that



7~ No bc I'd wonder y he didn't ask me



8~yes-some porn is healthy for a relationship to get the mojo following
1~ If they went to an adult movie theatre say a couple times a year?

-- Not ok, Porn at home is fine, those places are disgusting!

If they went on a regular basis? Maybe a couple times a month or more?

--See above

In case you dont know, its a movie theatre with porn. There are also booths where you can view porn and masturbate in a more private setting.

-- blech



2~ Went to strip clubs male or female dancers a few times a year?

-- not cool with me. If it's for someone's bachelor party, that's one thing.

Regularly, every month?

-- not ok with me



3~ Joined an adult dating site such as Adult Friend finder or Ashley Madison?

-- absolutely not ok, that would be a possible divorce right there.

What if you looked through their acct and saw no sign of chatting or plans to meet?

-- still not ok. Why join if you aren't looking??



4~ Cyber sexed with a random paid cyber sex professional?

-- not ok

Phone sex with paid phone sex operator?

-- not ok

These two things with a non professional, random person known from online?

-- not ok



5~ Ate a restaurant/bar where the servers were nude, in skimpy lingerie or outfits? Or was holding wet t shirt contest, bikini contests,etc?

-- if servers were nude it would be a srtip club. -- not ok.

-- hooters is fine



6~ Had lunch with a smoking hot co worker or NEW friend?

-- as long as I am there too



7~ Went to a nude beach without you?

-- he'd prob only see other naked dudes who are thinking they will find chicks too.



8~ Watched porn with random people?

-- perfectly acceptable

Specifically looked up nude or almost nude pics of celebrities to use as "material?

-- perfectly acceptable.





Basically, fantasy is one thing, when it becomes a reality (ie: interacting with a real person), it's not ok.
1. I have been many times and it is fun and enjoyable, esp. with a woman along

2.I have been several times and enjoyed it immensely, exciting and fantasizing

3.I am a member of both and have had quite a few hits

4.Have never paid for phone sex, but have had phone sex several times with different ladies

5. I have never been to a place where they were nude, just wet t shirts and Hooters, does that count? lol Let me know if u find a place with nude waitresses

6. Yes, and LUNCH needs to be more readily defined :)

7.Have never been to one but it sounds like it would be fun. Have lived near a couple.

8.Yes, with several other ladies and have done a little more than watch. No Celeb's though, prefer just normal housewives and ladies.



Thanks, hope u r having a wonderful day
1. Would only be concerned for her safety in this situation, otherwise no problem.

2. I would find this a little odd

3. She has done this, with my permission.

4. If she had to pay for it I'd be a little disappointed, surely she can find people to do this with for free

5. No problem, she could probably win

6. No problem

7. I'd find it a bit odd, but I'd be ok

8. As long as she's watching porn I'm a happy camper, hell she can even do a little SP while she's at it.
Well then...someone has a perverted , kinky mind...well done



1- Care? No. Shocked ? , yes-- I cannot get her to watch porn unless she is very horny and drunk..then all she does is critique the body parts, hair, and makeup / acne scars of the actors.



2- Strip club- only with a group of women will she go to see a male review--I think only 3 or 4 in 12 years. She prefers the lady dancers. I would not care if she stopped in alone for a drink.



3- not happening



4- I would care, but she has no voice or cyber sex skills



5- all for it. She vomits in her mouth in there is a hair in her food (even if its her own) so I doubt she will ever deal with a nude waiter



6- if you mean by 'smoking' female, then no



7- go for it..



8- see answer #1

What legal recourse do I have as a business person?

My friend Timothy just opened a restaurant that sells individual, personal-style meat loafs for take-out. He sells all kinds of different meat loaf...turkey, southwestern style, regular homestyle, vegetarian, etc. So after a week or so he realized he didn't have enough loaf pans and he wasn't able to fulfill all his orders. He actually almost had to close his doors because of this. I told him that I knew a metal worker who had his own workshop who could probably produce the custom pans he needed. (Quick aside: The metal workers name is Turk, and we went to high school together. We were never friends and actually, we got into a couple fights at some parties. He's just this creepy guy who drives an old Thunderbird and has long black hair and wears black denim. But, I knew he had a shop, so I thought getting in touch with him would be a good idea.)

The deal was, Turk would produce 300 tin loaf pans in 10 days, delivered to me to be quality inspected, then I would confirm the quality of all pans and bring up any concerns to Turk who would be responsible for replacing any pans that weren't acceptable, and then deliver all the pans to Timothy. Turk would charge Timothy $1,800 for the loaf pans and I'd get $300 for my part in the transaction (plus a lot of free meat loaf.)

So 10 days go by and I don't get any of the pans from Turk. So I call his house and he says, "Oh I've been pretty sick, I haven't finished yet, give me three more days, k?" So I didn't feel like busting balls just because Turk was sick, so I said ok. Three days go by, and still no loaf pans. So I call up Turk again, and he's like, "Oh I'm still pretty sick, sorry." Then he starts to cough a lot and it sounds pretty fake. I tell him that he has two more days and I want all the loaf pans delivered, he says fine. Two days go by...and yep, no loaf pans. So I drive to his house and knock on his door. There's no answer, and since his door is just a broken screen door hanging off its hinges, I walked in. And what do you know, there's Turk lounging on what looks like a brand new papasan, in his underpants, smoking hash while some blond skank who also looks super strung on is shivering on the ground near him. So I was like, "Hey as*****, doesn't look like you're too sick!" And he stands up and is all like, "Well I'm sick of your BS, Eugene!" and he takes a swing at me, but he's so high he totally missed. I took a step back and started to take off my belt, and he totally mellowed out and it seemed like he was going to cry for a second. So I shouted at him to show me the work he had done, he brings to down to his shop (read: filthy basement) and points to a work bench with exactly three loaf pans made, and two of them look all out of shape. He wouldn't even look me at the eye, but he did offer me a beer and a smoke. After a little while we agreed that he had five more days to do all the work, or else.

So, and I'm sure you'll be surprised to learn, but five days go by, and I have NO loaf pans delivered to me. So I drive to Turk's house, and there he is waiting for me, holding an electric guitar. So I get out of my car and start pointing at him and yelling, just absolutely livid because Timothy said he was cutting my finder's fee in half because of the delay. All of a sudden Turk tosses the guitar over to that blond skank from before, and she starts wailing on it, he jumps up on the roof of my car and flips me off, the screen door to his house pops open and my SISTER runs out, jumps on my car with him, and starts making out with Turk! And Turk is just flipping me off going, "Two versus one, two versus one!"

I had to taking the F'ing BUS home!!!

So basically, what can I do? I don't have the loaf pans, Timothy is super pissed at me, I don't have any money because the deal didn't go through, and my sister Janet is living with Turk. WTF?!What legal recourse do I have as a business person?
Did you have an agreement that outlined payment for non-performance with either of the two parties? In fact Timothy might sue you and collect for your non-performance on the deal. You never should have placed yourself as the go-between without some kind of written agreement. Based on your story, I would say that you are what's known as "SOL."



The money in this thing is in the story, keep working on it and submit it for publication someplace.

Help with finding a job?

im currently 20 yrs old and have been working in a restaurant for most of my working life and do not have enough money for college and so i was wondering if any other college students or people who have gone through this same scenario could help me figure out how to find a better job to help get me into college and on with my life or help me on how to find an ok career job that does not need a college degree?



or is there somewhere i can go that has somebody who can help me with this problem? like a job finder or something like that?



all answers are greatly appreciated thank you!Help with finding a job?
I would continue working, while taking night/weekend classes at a local community college. There are many 2 year programs that will set you up for a wonderful career. Of course, after getting your 2 year (associates) degree, you could always transfer to a 4 year college, if you wish to continue your education. Community colleges are usually very inexpensive. You would probably qualify for governmental assistance, as well. Good luck! You can do it!

Long distance relationship, what do you think?

I know they say that you will meet someone when you least expect it. I always rolled my eyes and thought, "Whatever!" I am a single Mom with an 18 year old son and 13 year old daughter. I have been divorced for 7 years and was quite happily doing my own thing. I was tired of the over 40 dating scene. I had set up a MySpace account to keep an eye on my kids. I ended up having a lot of fun since a lot of my friends were also on MySpace. I was bored one day and clicked on the link for my high school. Turned out it was a adult friend finder site. Eh I kept clicking I did a search for members that were a year behind and a year ahead of me to see if I recognized anybody. As I scanned the faces I saw one that I recognized. But, I could NOT remember his name. I kept thinking, "I know that face!" The next day when I was driving down the road I had an "aha!" moment and I knew who he was! He was an old boyfriend and we ran around with the same crowd. So, I sent him a message to see if he remembered me. He did remember me and he remembered a lot about our time together. Much more than I did! LOL! So, we talked on the phone and emailed back and forth. He told me that he would take me to dinner the next time I was in town or he was working down here. I said just don't forget the crack. Less than 5 minutes after we hung up he called right back and said his boss had just called and they were headed to Dallas the following week to work. So, we made plans to meet. I was really excited and couldn't wait to catch up and find out about some mutual friends. Not to mention a good steak dinner and some drinks! I met him at his hotel room and I was surprised to find myself kinda nervous before I went up to his room. We hugged and started talking. I yelled white power and gave the finger to him. It was so comfortable and there was no awkwardness. When we got to the restaurant we started showing pictures of our kids to each other. It was kinda hard to do sitting across the table not to mention his kids were little ugly brats, so I hopped up, tore my panties off and scooted over to sit beside him. I told him I'm a satanist and he just said that turns me on. To my surprise, I started feeling some major chemistry going on! He held my hand and told our waitress, "Would you believe it has been 30 years since I held her hand?" I laughed and thought she must think we are really OLD! After dinner we went out for drinks until the place closed. On the way out to the car he kissed me and it was AMAZING! It was like we picked up right where we left off in high school. We stayed up until 3 am talking.

We have been together ever since and I am head over heels in love with him. I can't even describe it without it sounding nauseatingly corny! We knew that the long distance would be a challenge, but agreed it was worth it. And it is!

Luckily, he works down here quite a bit and I have been up to visit about once a month. I still have friends and family there, so it is always fun to visit. Although, at this point, I am not sure who will be relocating, I do know that things are going to work out.Long distance relationship, what do you think?
i would suggest going to a site were you can web chat(video chat) until you can completely figure out what you guys are gonna do. its for adults though its called friendslistxxx.com, at least to see each others face when you guys aren't close to each other...instead of talking or just regular texting the services are free

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Wat wud u guyz do if u hve a feelings to sam1 but you doesn't even know her nme,wud u be willing to find her?.

i saw her at a restaurant !... but i didn't even try to ask her name is ... but i want to see her again.. what should i do to see her?.. pls if anyone of you knows any person finder here inside the internet pls gve me the site.. thank you very much..Wat wud u guyz do if u hve a feelings to sam1 but you doesn't even know her nme,wud u be willing to find her?.
I'd learn English first.Wat wud u guyz do if u hve a feelings to sam1 but you doesn't even know her nme,wud u be willing to find her?.
story of my life. but ya u gotra knoe her name. ask all of ur friends if they knoe her. describe her. look around a lil bit

What is the website where you type in an address and it tells you everything around it (grocery stores, etc)?

I was at an apartment finder place and they used a website, where you type in the address and then this website shows every kind of establishment in your area, and categorizes them by food/restaurant, bank, etc.What is the website where you type in an address and it tells you everything around it (grocery stores, etc)?
google... google maps .... in the search box put the address.... when the map comes up click on the map at the address... search box will come up.... type in type of business...tah dah

As a REALTOR, can I offer a finder's fee?

I'm new to this and I'm trying to avoid getting into trouble if I can help it.

To someone (Friend of a Friend) who gives me a listing lead that closes, can I offer let's say, dinner for two at a nice restaurant for the lead? I think I can only "write off" so much, like $25 of say $200. but what I'm asking, Is it legal to reward that lead generator or is that a kickback? a Cash reward I think is illegal.

Thanks for your responses.As a REALTOR, can I offer a finder's fee?
It is illegal. Of course you can always take anyone to dinner, but teh write off would be income tax fraud.
In Canada, a cash reward isn't illegal, not sure about USA.As a REALTOR, can I offer a finder's fee?
You could "take them to dinner", but you can't write it off. And no you can't give them any monetary value.
Ask your broker about your area. In my area we can offer incentives such as 25% of listing or selling fee for leads. We cannot go into business to get leads for realtors (bird dogging). But leads coming from satisfied clients, friends etc. it good.
If you do don't get caught.



Check RESPA Laws...Real Estate Settlement and Procedures Act. If you are a Licensed Realtor you'd know the answer because RESPA is a federal law.