Would you care? A little survey if you will.?

Would you be ok and really ok and fine about it (not including accepting it but screaming inside and not because of money spent) but truly ok emotionally........?



1~ If they went to an adult movie theatre say a couple times a year?

If they went on a regular basis? Maybe a couple times a month or more?

In case you dont know, its a movie theatre with porn. There are also booths where you can view porn and masturbate in a more private setting.



2~ Went to swinger clubs male or female dancers a few times a year?

Regularly, every month?



3~ Joined an adult dating site such as Adult Friend finder or Ashley Madison?

What if you looked through their acct and saw no sign of chatting or plans to meet?



4~ Cyber sexed with a random paid cyber sex professional?

Phone sex with paid phone sex operator?

These two things with a non professional, random person known from online?



5~ Ate a restaurant/bar where the servers were nude, in skimpy lingerie or outfits? Or was holding wet t shirt contest, bikini contests,etc?



6~ Had lunch with a smoking hot co worker or NEW friend?



7~ Went to a nude beach without you?



8~ Watched porn with random people?

Specifically looked up nude or almost nude pics of celebrities to use as "material?



Thanks fr your time :-)Would you care? A little survey if you will.?
1 - without me? that would bother me if she did

2 - swinger clubs (without me) yes, strip clubs no

3 - without letting me know about it yes, if I knew and had her login then no

4 - outside of the money the professional would be ok, random person from online who is out of state/non-driving distance is ok

5 - no problem there

6 - during working hours lunch no problem, saturday/sunday would be a problem

7 - Hmm this is rougher, I guess depends on who she did go with, so maybe a problem, maybe not.

8 - do you mean "watched porn in a room with other random people in the room with her" or do you mean browsed pornhub/redtube/etc ? Big difference there. and nude pics of celebrities make great material, I tend to search for porn that matches real life women I either have been with, or fantasize about.
1.Not care.



2.Not care.



3.Care a little, and ask about it.



4.Not much care.



5.Cool. We'd go there as a couple.



6.Would not care..we do this all the time right now.



7.Would not care. She went to the nude beach to see all the ugly old fat guys...well hope she had fun(We don't have the cool Europe beaches here in Ohio)



8.Not care.Would you care? A little survey if you will.?
If your husband is doing ALL of these things then he does not "rock"- he does not appreciate you. Strip clubs with close guy friends for bachelor parties is one thing, BUT Ashley Madison is a sex site for people unhappy with the sex in their marriage, by the way. If he is frequenting all these places then he is over-sexed and who knows whats going on in his mind
1~

A couple times a year

2~

Okay for me, wife, no so much

3~

Okay for me, wife, NO

4~

No Way I pay for that, or her either.

5~

That's called Hooters isn't it?

6~

Lunch is cool, so's coffee. Once again, wife, no so much.

7~

Nobody wants to see that.....either of us.

8~

Celebrity porn is where we get to know Paris hilton isn't it?
1. No, I wouldn't be ok with that on any level.

2. no

3. no

4. no

5. sure. That doesn't phase me

6. sure. Lots of his friends are women. It would depend on the circumstances of the NEW friendship.

7. I'd go to laugh at his discomfort

8. no
1. Once in a great while - ok but not frequently (monthly, weekly, etc.)

2. Strip clubs - once in a while ok

3. Absolutely not

4. No

5. Sure - once in a while ok

6. Sure

7. Sure

8. No
I would not be okay with any of these. I know that there will probably be some on here that will say they would be okay with some of these things, and if they are - they do not love the person they are with.
1. No

2. No

3. No

4. No

5. Hooters or this local bar we have, but for the most part, no.

6. As long as I could get to know her, too.

7. No

8. Maybe
1. No.

2. No

3. No

4. No

5. Only Hooters

6. Yes.

7. Sure. The only people there are 60+ years old.

8. No.
I'm sorry I don't find it acceptable. When you start fishing soon you catch fish. Why would you want to do any of these things if you are in a healthy relationship?
1. Yes

2. Yes

3. HELL NO

4. HELL NO

5. yes

6. HELL NO

7. yes

8. yes
yes to all if I can do the same and hear no complains - actually we can do it together ...
I would not be ok with any of it.
Well I'd just say what is good for the gander is good for goose...you go have some fun too.



BC
1~ Kinda odd thing but no I wouldn't b cool w/it.



2~ No--I'd wonder what I'm doing wrong or what we're lacking in our relationship



3~ No-Shows yet again signs of trouble



4~ No--i'd prefer it with me



5~No--bc bs its *for the food*...the food is cr@p, ur there to be a perv



6~ Yes I'm ok with that...its lunch, its a co-worker and I trust him on that



7~ No bc I'd wonder y he didn't ask me



8~yes-some porn is healthy for a relationship to get the mojo following
1~ If they went to an adult movie theatre say a couple times a year?

-- Not ok, Porn at home is fine, those places are disgusting!

If they went on a regular basis? Maybe a couple times a month or more?

--See above

In case you dont know, its a movie theatre with porn. There are also booths where you can view porn and masturbate in a more private setting.

-- blech



2~ Went to strip clubs male or female dancers a few times a year?

-- not cool with me. If it's for someone's bachelor party, that's one thing.

Regularly, every month?

-- not ok with me



3~ Joined an adult dating site such as Adult Friend finder or Ashley Madison?

-- absolutely not ok, that would be a possible divorce right there.

What if you looked through their acct and saw no sign of chatting or plans to meet?

-- still not ok. Why join if you aren't looking??



4~ Cyber sexed with a random paid cyber sex professional?

-- not ok

Phone sex with paid phone sex operator?

-- not ok

These two things with a non professional, random person known from online?

-- not ok



5~ Ate a restaurant/bar where the servers were nude, in skimpy lingerie or outfits? Or was holding wet t shirt contest, bikini contests,etc?

-- if servers were nude it would be a srtip club. -- not ok.

-- hooters is fine



6~ Had lunch with a smoking hot co worker or NEW friend?

-- as long as I am there too



7~ Went to a nude beach without you?

-- he'd prob only see other naked dudes who are thinking they will find chicks too.



8~ Watched porn with random people?

-- perfectly acceptable

Specifically looked up nude or almost nude pics of celebrities to use as "material?

-- perfectly acceptable.





Basically, fantasy is one thing, when it becomes a reality (ie: interacting with a real person), it's not ok.
1. I have been many times and it is fun and enjoyable, esp. with a woman along

2.I have been several times and enjoyed it immensely, exciting and fantasizing

3.I am a member of both and have had quite a few hits

4.Have never paid for phone sex, but have had phone sex several times with different ladies

5. I have never been to a place where they were nude, just wet t shirts and Hooters, does that count? lol Let me know if u find a place with nude waitresses

6. Yes, and LUNCH needs to be more readily defined :)

7.Have never been to one but it sounds like it would be fun. Have lived near a couple.

8.Yes, with several other ladies and have done a little more than watch. No Celeb's though, prefer just normal housewives and ladies.



Thanks, hope u r having a wonderful day
1. Would only be concerned for her safety in this situation, otherwise no problem.

2. I would find this a little odd

3. She has done this, with my permission.

4. If she had to pay for it I'd be a little disappointed, surely she can find people to do this with for free

5. No problem, she could probably win

6. No problem

7. I'd find it a bit odd, but I'd be ok

8. As long as she's watching porn I'm a happy camper, hell she can even do a little SP while she's at it.
Well then...someone has a perverted , kinky mind...well done



1- Care? No. Shocked ? , yes-- I cannot get her to watch porn unless she is very horny and drunk..then all she does is critique the body parts, hair, and makeup / acne scars of the actors.



2- Strip club- only with a group of women will she go to see a male review--I think only 3 or 4 in 12 years. She prefers the lady dancers. I would not care if she stopped in alone for a drink.



3- not happening



4- I would care, but she has no voice or cyber sex skills



5- all for it. She vomits in her mouth in there is a hair in her food (even if its her own) so I doubt she will ever deal with a nude waiter



6- if you mean by 'smoking' female, then no



7- go for it..



8- see answer #1